Beginner's Guide to Bondage
28
Sep 2020

It has remained swept under the carpet, but you may have heard that there’s something different in sex that has got a few tongues swinging the past few years. Something about tying people up and spanking and...wow.

 

Jokes aside, bondage is clearly not a new or small phenomena! It may have taken one sexual to bring some light to it, but bondage is a time-honoured and tested sexual specialty that has been experienced for centuries by various different kinds of people. Furthermore, since it has grown to become a part of mainstream society, more people than ever are experiencing the joys of restraint, pain for pleasure and psychological seduction.

 

There are many different types of bondage and fetish play that can excite and entice you. Maybe you or your partner want to be tied up, maybe you want to be spanked, maybe you want to roleplay, maybe you want to use cruel but cool toys. There are as many ways to explore bondage as there are tongues out there wagging in anticipation!

 

Here are some essential things to remember:

 

Communicate and pick a safeword

We recently spoke about safewords in our recent news post: Beginner's Guide to Blindfolds. The most critical part of successful bondage scenes is a vast amount of communication. Everybody involved needs to know just what is planned to happen, who is going to do what, what will be used, and this is key, what everybody’s boundaries are. As part of establishing boundaries, everybody needs to establish a safeword. You can use this signature word to indicate a desire to reduce or completely stop the action in a bondage scene.

 

Explore through books, talks and porn

Bondage can be frightening when you’re just beginning. If neither you nor your companion has knowledge in bondage, it is an excellent idea to explore the ins and outs of it through books, talking with others and good, representative porn. You’ll discover insider skills and advice, as well as knowing that other people are actually into the kinky things you desire to try.

 

Go slow

Bondage play is normally not the realm of quickies. Sure, you may pull off a scarf, tie your companion's hands behind their back and go at it, however that doesn’t work as well with dedicated scenes. Also, when you take your time, you and your partner can feel all of the differences of bondage sexiness. Enjoy these times of hedonistic pleasure!

 

Shop for exciting toys

You can experience a lot of bondage fun with just your hands or a few items from home, but when you really get a taste for the dark arts of sex, you’ll be delighted to try new things with new toys!

 

If you are interested in getting into bondage, here are some essential Mephisto Toys products to look for:

Beginners: Love Cuffs - Pink Fluffy Hand Cuffs

Restraints: Fetish Fantasy Series Deluxe Silky Rope - Black Bondage Rope

Spanking: Orange Is The New Black - Spanky Junior - Black Paddle

Take away sound: Fetish Fantasy Series Spandex Open-Mouth Hood - Black Hood

Take away sight: Renegade Bondage - Blindfold - Black Blindfold

Something kinky: Master Series Jolt - Electro Puppy Trainer Shock Collar

 

Here at Mephisto Toys, we are all about teaching you to explore your body and break the negative stigma that has been attached to the adult industry for years. We truly want to help the sex lives of people all over Australia. It is what we do! If you are ready to have the sex life you deserve, purchase some quality adult products and sex toys online today!